Reminiscing

Reminiscing  with a friend yesterday about change and how and why people change, brought a conversation about my life when we lived in New Mexico and all that i/we were going though at the  short time we lived there.  I look back at the type of person i was then verse the person  i am now. I know i use to share a lot and depend on people a lot, complained a lot etc.   Until i had a conversation with a friend who saw me as weak, to depended and always negative etc etc.  I took that conversation  to heart. I actually cried a lot during that conversation that night.  I  can honestly say from that conversation i am no longer dependent on people. I don't ask for help,  i am closed off and i don't put myself out there as much as i use to. I have become self dependent and self reliant and everything else that goes in that category. I know i also  don't let myself get to close to people like i use to.

So i am not really sure with all  that took place that night was a good thing or a bad thing, but i do know it shaped me into the person i am now. There for i  leave with a quote from the famous
Maya Angelou.

“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”